Kahwin Muda....

orang selalu kata kalau kahwin awal/muda .. perkahwinan tak stabil, sebab masa tue mentah lagi ..
ape segala basic in a relationship, parenting and adulthood sangat sikit..
and, the most frequent asked question "AWAK NAK BAGI ANAK DARA ORANG MAKAN APE?" (kesian kaum Adam .. hahaha~~)
okay, nie aku bukan nak kasi pandangan ke ape ke ..
nak cerita pasal a pair of husband and wife that i knew ..


The gal came from a middle-class family and the guy came from a lower-class family (orang susah la..)
they met when they were Form 1. but back then they were just friends.
okay, masuk phase kahwin ..
they got married at the age of ... 18
back then ... aku confirm, laki tue.. mesti disoal dengan soalan standard atas tue ..
tapi sumhow they risked it, and got married (tapi with parent's blessing ye .... no eloping in this case)
now, they are.. 10/11 years married (Alhamdulillah) .. blessed with a son (Kak tue kata .. xde rezeki lagi ..)
and, their marriage aint a failure at all!!
kak tue cerita .. "akak ngan suami akak dari pakai moto buruk je bersama .. tapi, dua-dua ade semangat nak maju .. nak make this marriage happen.. sekarang nie, Alhamdulillah .. akak takut jugak .. kawan-kawan akak yg kahwin awal ramai dah cerai .. tapi .. mintak simpang lah jadi kat akak"
now, they are both 29 .. and they drive BMW! (keta lagi satu xtau la plakk)
duduk pun kat kawasan rumah socialite
see?? (ayah aku pun tak bwk BMW.. kalau nk compare umur laa)
hahahaha~~


sape kata kahwin awal tak elok?
as long as niat betul, kerana Allah .. and bukan nafsu or 'cinta' lah konon ...
ade rase and usaha nak maju .. i think it could work






P/S : Sya, sebelum kau serang aku ... I'm not posting this coz aku dah gatal nak menikahh ekkhhh!!
hahahha~~